Sex
everywhere… except in marriage
Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful
to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and
those who commit adultery.
As a
Pastor I have always wondered why there are young people that just cannot seem
to stay out of bed and we pray and fast and cry and sing songs about “no ringy…
no dingy” hope the young people will live holy meanwhile on the other side the
married couples seem to be bored with each other. We have to pray and fast to
get them into bed… with each other.
What
is the source of the dysfunction? Watch television there is sex everywhere,
every advert has sexual innuendo. Adverts for a car appear with a naked woman
whose supposed to be “sexy” posters, billboards internet etc. we see sex
everywhere. It seems the enemy understands something that the church needs to
learn. Sex is a normal part of a healthy society and sex is integral to this
facet of our lives. So he attacks where it hurts the most. We remain ignorant
about money and sex and yet we all need both, in fact we are working hard to
get these things whether secretly or publicly.
I am
not just trying to be hard on the church I love the church and I desire to see
happier marriages that are full of love intimacy and lovemaking. But as long as
we do not open up to these facts then we will continue to see the challenge of
misplaced values and pleasures. Sex is great no its awesome no its outrageously,
awesome, splendid glorious. Above all it is a means of worshipping God that
gives glory to Him. Satan knows if I attack and pervert this thing that was God
made then I can frustrate the plan of God. Satan is out to mess up your life
and marriage.
Ok
ok here is the good news. Lets go back to the scripture at the beginning, give
honor to marriage and treat it with the due reverence. If we are to fully enjoy
life as God intended for us to we must revisit the value systems that he placed
on marriage. Why did God bring people together in marriage and how should we
treat our marriages. The attack has been to discredit marriage and cause us to
treat it as unimportant and then the enemy comes in to cause frustration and
pain until people say “why get married anyway” One translation says God draws a
firm line against adultery. If I can get them to live in sin they will feel
guilty and they will not be in fellowship with God then I win.
It
is possible to be married and love it, it is possible to be joyful in your
marriage, and heres how. Make love more often, set targets to increase the
amount of lovemaking in your relationship. Go wild go crazy have fun go on a
lovemaking adventure, discover the fun that is is your sexuality.
I
can here a lady saying “ahhh Pastor do you know my husband, he does not love
me, all he wants is sex” well if you give him he will discover that there is
more to this person than a sexual organ (Unless you married a monster then
that’s a different story) After all the thing that caused him to notice you was
the sexuality and you should know the power of it as a God-given tool to make
the playing field equal.
Back
to my point lets increase the amount of lovemaking in our marriages and we will
see the bond getting stronger. Its amazing that God designed it in a way that
makes a sexy marriage will have a stronger desire for more sex and more of each
other and there are countless other benefits of making love more often. I did
some articles that perhaps you need to look at Make
love a habit you will learn why satan does not want you to be making more
love with your spouse and makes it easy to do it with others. There are awesome
benefits
to regular lovemaking that will solve your challenges forever.
I
have noticed that couples that make more love make more money, more ideas, are
happier, more joyful, their home is homely but the opposite is also true. So
couples here is the challenge make a plan to double your lovemaking in the next
30 days and stop and do a review of your marriage, communication, finances and
the general bond between the two of you. Money back guarantee… Please note I am
using the Word lovemaking as apposed to the sex that fills the world. Only
married people can make love, others fornicate. Fornication brings judgment, holiness
brings blessing and marriage is holy and pleasing to God
