The “F” word in the bedroom
We
are living in times where our marriages are under severe attack from everywhere
and we need to be intentional about building what I call God-centered
marriages. These are marriages where God is the center. This is not a
“Christian” marriage but one where the married Christians deliberately decide
that we will center our decisions, action, thoughts and lifestyle in and around
what God has said in His Word. Husbands love you wife as Christ loved the
church and gave himself for it, period. Wives submit to your own husband as the
church to the church, very clear.
But
how many marriages are like that? It is not easy to put your body under and
deal with the feelings and emotions that are so well fed by the media to do
exactly the opposite. The enemy coined the “f” word to attack marriage and make
common what God made to be sacred. Young people are caught up with this and
adults don’t know how to handle it. I am in no way trying to be crude I am
merely tackling matters that are a source of great pain in many people lives
when it should be a source of great joy.
Anyway
before you close this blog and write me off let me cut to the chase. I want to
introduce you to the “F” words that should be a permanent part of your married
life. These words will bless you and help you get to a place where you are
“Married and Loving it” here we go… If you have these words in your bedroom wow
you will be super glued to each other.
Sexy Scriptures for today.
Gen 26:8 MSG One day, after they had been there
quite a long time, Abimelech, king of the Philistines, looked out his window
and saw Isaac fondling his wife Rebekah.
1Co 6:16 There’s more to sex than mere
skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As
written in Scripture, "The two become one."
Heb 13:4 MSG Honor marriage, and guard the
sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line
against casual and illicit sex.
Frequent
Lovemaking
should be frequent you should practice often how to please your spouse and keep
their mind full of you. Infrequent sex leads to fatigue, failure, frustration,
foolishness, frigidity, force, fear and other words that I do not want to take
up space with.
On
the other hand frequent sex cause you to desire each other more as doctors say
we produce a hormone oxytocin during foreplay and love making and the only real
known purpose for this hormone if bonding the couple producing it, wow God is
funny isn’t He. The more you do it the more you want to do it with the same
person, the hormone creates a desire and a longing for the person you are
married to. Practice makes permanent. You see the more you do it the more you
have an opportunity to learn make mistakes laugh about them and move on. There
are many amazing benefits to frequent lovemaking let me mention one and move on
“Financial favor”. I can see that look on your face how does frequent love
making result in financial favor? Try it out decide to make love with to your
spouse daily for a month or two and you will see the change. We tried it with
couples at church amazing results with those that did “The assignment”
(Watch
out for our “Married and loving it” seminar called “Sex and Money”)
Fun
Not
only should lovemaking be frequent it should be fun. It should be something
that makes you smile at you desk when you think about it at work. “I’m smiling
right now as I think about it” back to business after deciding to do it often
ask the question “what can we do to make it more fun? Play games like Adam and
Eve (before the fall) that means get rid of the kids the helper lock yourselves
in the house watch Nat Geo wild without your cloths name the animal then go have some fruit. (Remember cloths came as a result of the fall not children)
Here
are some words to think about. Frolic around the house with in your favorite
sexy cloths, foreplay for the next session begins immediately after you finish
the current session, food fellowship and friendship is followed through by some
find me behind the couch fun, favor with each other will result in favor with
God. I am sure, as a wife you want God to answer your husbands prayers, so stay
connected.
Be
adventurous the discovery channel was meant to be for couples just keep your
discoveries secret.
Fulfilling
When
you are friends who fellowship frequently in a fun environment you will find
the final result of the relationship is fulfillment. Couples that do these
things have a glow on their face and a sparkle in their eyes. A fulfilled
marriage results in a fulfilled life. Be determined to live a fulfilled life
and you will see how long you live. To be fulfilled like this decide to be
forgiving (that means give first) forbearing (bear first) forplanning (plan
first) forplaying (play first) for-orgasmic (that means at least four orgasms a
day no it means you are in favor of)
Hey
have fun see you at a "Married and loving it" seminar
Your
turn to add to this blog other “F” words that you think will help couples to be
“Married and love it”
