The "F" word in the bedroom

The “F” word in the bedroom

We are living in times where our marriages are under severe attack from everywhere and we need to be intentional about building what I call God-centered marriages. These are marriages where God is the center. This is not a “Christian” marriage but one where the married Christians deliberately decide that we will center our decisions, action, thoughts and lifestyle in and around what God has said in His Word. Husbands love you wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it, period. Wives submit to your own husband as the church to the church, very clear.

But how many marriages are like that? It is not easy to put your body under and deal with the feelings and emotions that are so well fed by the media to do exactly the opposite. The enemy coined the “f” word to attack marriage and make common what God made to be sacred. Young people are caught up with this and adults don’t know how to handle it. I am in no way trying to be crude I am merely tackling matters that are a source of great pain in many people lives when it should be a source of great joy.

Anyway before you close this blog and write me off let me cut to the chase. I want to introduce you to the “F” words that should be a permanent part of your married life. These words will bless you and help you get to a place where you are “Married and Loving it” here we go… If you have these words in your bedroom wow you will be super glued to each other.

Sexy Scriptures for today. 

Gen 26:8 MSG One day, after they had been there quite a long time, Abimelech, king of the Philistines, looked out his window and saw Isaac fondling his wife Rebekah.

1Co 6:16 There’s more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, "The two become one."

Heb 13:4 MSG Honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex.

Frequent

Lovemaking should be frequent you should practice often how to please your spouse and keep their mind full of you. Infrequent sex leads to fatigue, failure, frustration, foolishness, frigidity, force, fear and other words that I do not want to take up space with.

On the other hand frequent sex cause you to desire each other more as doctors say we produce a hormone oxytocin during foreplay and love making and the only real known purpose for this hormone if bonding the couple producing it, wow God is funny isn’t He. The more you do it the more you want to do it with the same person, the hormone creates a desire and a longing for the person you are married to. Practice makes permanent. You see the more you do it the more you have an opportunity to learn make mistakes laugh about them and move on. There are many amazing benefits to frequent lovemaking let me mention one and move on “Financial favor”. I can see that look on your face how does frequent love making result in financial favor? Try it out decide to make love with to your spouse daily for a month or two and you will see the change. We tried it with couples at church amazing results with those that did “The assignment”

(Watch out for our “Married and loving it” seminar called “Sex and Money”)

Fun

Not only should lovemaking be frequent it should be fun. It should be something that makes you smile at you desk when you think about it at work. “I’m smiling right now as I think about it” back to business after deciding to do it often ask the question “what can we do to make it more fun? Play games like Adam and Eve (before the fall) that means get rid of the kids the helper lock yourselves in the house watch Nat Geo wild without your cloths name the animal then go have some fruit. (Remember cloths came as a result of the fall not children)

Here are some words to think about. Frolic around the house with in your favorite sexy cloths, foreplay for the next session begins immediately after you finish the current session, food fellowship and friendship is followed through by some find me behind the couch fun, favor with each other will result in favor with God. I am sure, as a wife you want God to answer your husbands prayers, so stay connected.

Be adventurous the discovery channel was meant to be for couples just keep your discoveries secret.

Fulfilling

When you are friends who fellowship frequently in a fun environment you will find the final result of the relationship is fulfillment. Couples that do these things have a glow on their face and a sparkle in their eyes. A fulfilled marriage results in a fulfilled life. Be determined to live a fulfilled life and you will see how long you live. To be fulfilled like this decide to be forgiving (that means give first) forbearing (bear first) forplanning (plan first) forplaying (play first) for-orgasmic (that means at least four orgasms a day no it means you are in favor of)

Hey have fun see you at a "Married and loving it" seminar

Your turn to add to this blog other “F” words that you think will help couples to be “Married and love it”